1. Take things slowly. Savour this moment. While you may be a little too tired to have the most spectacular sex of your lives, this is likely to be among your most romantic and intimate sexual experiences.
2. Lower your expectations. This may not be the most amazing sex you've ever had. So what? Try to enjoy whatever happens, anyway.
3. Read some sex books. Who couldn't use a little advice from the experts? It's always good to know what you are in for.
4. Talk to each other. Spend some time relaxing, talking about the wedding, and about your love for each other. Let things get romantic and mushy. The sex that follows will be intimate and amazing.
5. Expand your idea of the wedding night. If you're too tired for foreplay, that sex isn't going to be so great. Couldn't it be better to wait until the morning?
6. Flirt with each other during the wedding. It can be easy to spend the whole wedding greeting guests, cutting cakes and other details. Don't forget to stop, stare into each other's eyes, share a few extra kisses, and flirt with each other. It will also help build the excitement for your private time later.
7. Don't have sex with each other for a couple of weeks before the wedding. Many couples try to make the wedding night sex fresh and new again. Others go even further by giving up sex months before the wedding so that they may be virgin-like on the wedding night.
8. Try something new. Perhaps there's been something you've been wanting to try? Your wedding night can be a fun time to experiment, as you will be having an equally excited partner.
9. Wear something special. Wedding night lingerie can really help pump up the mood. Pick something different from what you usually wear to excite your partner. Make sure you feel confident in it, as a confident lover is almost always a better lover.
10. Set the stage. Help yourselves get into the mood by setting the scene aptly for those few special hours. Light some candles, bring some CDs and a radio, scatter rose petals, or do whatever helps you get in the mood. And don't be afraid to kick friends and family out early. While they may tease you a little, they'll certainly understand. They'd better!
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